April 20 - 23, 2023

"Can I Hump Your Leg?" Social in the Pet Park!

Calling all Pets of IMsLBB! The Park is open! We welcome all pets and animals to frolic in the park. Look for pop up activities all weekend!

Afternoon TEAse with the Exiles

Calling all cute-teas, hot-teas, and bes-teas, let the Exiles tea-se you with an assortment of afternoon delights. As we navigate the day filled with tantalizing education, take a moment to mingle, flirt and cruise with these Bay Area and beyond leather kinksters. We look forward to dallying with fellow delicious deviants over teas and treats. Because "Sky rockets in flight…" ;)

Composed solely of volunteers, The Exiles is a 501(c)3 non-profit educational organization with historical San Franciscan roots dating from 1978 as Samois to 1984 as the Outcasts before becoming the Exiles in 1997. Our history continues to center on building safe spaces for marginalized folks seeking education, social events, and community for all levels of those practicing BDSM. For more information, visit us at http://theexiles.org

Boots and Cigars

Join the House of Steele (HoS) for a Boots & Cigar social. There, you can enjoy:
- Two bootblacks
- Kink demos (including cigar play)
- Cigar service (cigars not provided)
- Cocktails
- Celebrating the winners and competitors (and our community), in the manner that the HoS prefers, surrounded by leather, love, and cigar smoke!

Cannaservice 420 social in the courtyard smoking tent

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Crossing the Bootblacking - Pet play lines

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Erotic Reading by Cecilia Tan

Keynote speaker Cecilia Tan reads from her deliciously kinky BDSM erotic stories. Come celebrate the release of BENT FOR LEATHER, her new collection being published for IMsLBB.

Eye Openers with the NJ Leather Family

Wake up and start your Saturday at Eye Openers with the NJ Leather Family

Femme4Femme Mixer

Calling all femmes! Want to meet, mingle, and play with more femmes at IMsLBB? Join Syenite, Vonka, & Kori for extra-gay cocktails, mocktails, and a glittery good time at the Femme4Femme Mixer.

[This event is exclusively for self-identified femmes who are attracted to other self-identified femmes. We understand (and adore!) that *femme* can look and feel different for everyone, and we will not police anyone's gender expression. Come through, femme; you are cherished here!]

Jello Wrestling Tournament

Ever wanted to roll around in 100 gallons of jello? Waiting for the perfect time to unveil your pro wrestling persona? Join us for the first ever IMsLBB wrestling Tournament!

Keynote Speaker: Cecilia Tan

For over 30 years Cecilia Tan has been writing kinky fiction and promoting BDSM community activism. As the author of Telepaths Don’t Need Safewords, Slow Surrender, The Prince’s Boy, and many other works of BDSM erotica, founder of Circlet Press, and creator and longtime director of the Fetish Fair Fleamarkets, she has accumulated many leather community awards, including the Pantheon of Leather President's Award, NLA: International Lifetime Achievement Award, and NLA Woman of the Year.

Kink Out

Kink Out invites you to an indulgent Taurean ritual of sacrifice and slaughter, on Friday April 21st from 1:30-3:30pm. Revel in decadent delights destined to satisfy all your carnal desires. Satisfy your hunger and slake your thirst; there will be offerings to satisfy carnivores and vegans alike. Dress the part of sacrificial lamb and tempt someone to swallow you whole. We’re licking our lips in anticipation and can’t wait to see you there ✨

LA&M Cocktail Party

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Lesbian Sex Mafia

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Masochist v Masochist Saturday Fight Club

The first rule of Masochist v Masochist Fight Club is, you TALK ALL ABOUT the MvM Fight Club.
The second rule of Masochist v Masochist Fight Club is, you TALK ALL ABOUT the MvM Fight Club.
Are you a masochist and want the chance to earn the MvM Fight Club Hanky? Earn your ticket and meet in the ring midnight after the Saturday Night Contest!

POC Chill Zone

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Piss Play Wet T-Shirt Contest!!!!

Meet us in the courtyard on Saturday at 3pm for an all out soak out piss play extravaganza! Come as a pair or come alone and we will do our best to pair you up. White T-shirts and Stand to Pees available. Max 20 Pairs.

Pop up Vendor: Cecilia Tan

Keynote speaker Cecilia Tan sells a selection of her kinky and erotic books. Ask nicely and she'll do short tarot readings as well.

Pop up Vendor: QueerlyMade

For the first time in 2023, come see MJ and her works of art that make up QueerlyMade. You will find an array of queer handmade goods to shop- from one of a kind glass cocks, to sexy ceramics and feminist embroidery!! Saturday from 12-3pm, see schedule for location!!!

Queer Dance Naked Party

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Queer Happy Hour

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Queer Invasion

For the past 15 years, Queer Invasion has brought together queers, dykes, bears, lesbians, nonbinary and trans folks from all over into kink and leather for play, connection and community. Our tri-annual events have been on hold due to COVID, and we are SO excited to be gathering again at IMsL this year. And, keep an eye out for information about what we might be doing next... wink wink.

Quiet Space

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SF Eagle Wind Down Party

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Seduction

An evening of burlesque, strip tease, lap dancing, drag, and more which will get you in the mood for the weekend with it’s long runway, sit and enjoy with friends and hot vibes all night long. Funds raised benefit IMsL/IMsBB Travel funds.

Shots, Pups and Bootblacks...OH MY!

There's no place like home in our hospitality suite! It's been a tornado of events this weekend so come get a shot from our resident mixologist or belly up to our candy bar. Click those well traveled boots three times and get yourself a "clean and condition" by a bootblack! Have you considered adopting a pet to support you on the rest of your journey; visit our "Adopt a Pet Program" and experience the wonder of our two legged friends! We sincerely hope you have the brains, heart and courage to come visit our suite! We promise you will feel over the rainbow when you leave!

Silent Auction

The Silent Auction gives you the chance to see what the contestants have
brought to share to represent their communities and donations from our
attendees, vendors and leather community members. Drop by, shop and
bid on your favorite items. Use your badge number to lock in your bid.
Whether it’s history, toys or clothes, be sure you put in a bid and check
back often.

Spread'em! with F.I.S.T.

F.I.S.T is hosting "Spread'em!" Come nash on bagels with cream cheese of your choice, or fruit and yogurt! Kick back with coffee or juice and start the day right socializing and spreading! fistwomen.org

TKO - Trans Kink Organization

TKO is a new leather org centering education, community and empowerment for the trans community. They are holding an official launch party where the Trans Leather community can build community, cruise, and get to know more about our org.

The IMsLBB Uniform Party by Dyke Uniform Corps

Join the D.U.C. for Hot and Sexy Uniforms and playing with your food, specifically Meals-Ready-To-Eat! Wear your finest uniform or anything you like and enjoy the view!

The Leftovers Party

The Leftovers Party
When: Sunday night
What: The Leftovers Party is the final party of IMSLbb weekend, your last call for deviant sociality. Join us for one last round of drinks, snacks, flirtation, mischief, or just to chill out. Got any perishables you don’t want to lug all the way back home? Bring ‘em!

Titans of the Midwest

Feel like being around others, but need a low-key space? Then join us at the Recharge Room, sponsored by Titans of the Midwest. The Recharge Room offers: a Hydration Station (sealed non-alcoholic drinks), the Refuel Area (Individually packaged snacks), and the Activity Zone: (coloring books, small puzzles, smaller items to keep your hands busy, plus soft pillows and mats for anyone, including pet players, to curl up and relax while still socializing).

Titans will be there for folks who want to be social but aren't looking for a high-energy activity. Come relax and recharge with us on Saturday afternoon!

Victory Party

Celebrate the new International Ms Leather and International Ms Bootblack titleholders!